By ragebait I mean just people posting insta/tiktok chuds, transphobes, negative news, retarded cissoids, hon opticsnukes, chaser dms, brigaders, whatever the fuck. Going back on reddit after having uninstalled it for just a week, there’s just so much of that and i never realized how much it was destroying my mental state every day. It really is mental self harm.

On the other hand people here seem to exclusively blogpost or make silly shitposts, worst thing is dysphoria posting or venting, but I don’t mind it and it doesn’t affect me in nearly the same way. I really really hope tranistan stays this way or at least if people start doing those callout posts, they are self contained somewhere in a special community and easy to filter out.

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    tbf i feel like 4tran4 was like that back in the early days. i was around when it first came out and it was a lot like how the site is now. 4t4 one day breached containment and hit the mainstream though.

    I like 4t4 but i feel like it suffered from success. /lgbt/ struggles with the same thing too though with all the brigaders and chuds blah blah blah

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    Trvth nvke. Doomscrolling on the sub was addicting and all the negativity only made me worse. It’s like a never ending spiral of getting sad about things and then seeking even sadder things to doom about. This place is so much better it actually feels like a community where we’re not actively trying to destroy each others metal health

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    i had to leave the sub for a while because it was starting to harm me mentally to see cisgenders say we deserved to get raped, beaten, berated, that we’re all pedophiles and rapists just for existing… it was starting to feel genuinely personal and i couldn’t live like that anymore

    idk about this site tho, it seems nice enough

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    Yeah the rage slop is so stupid,

    You’re just being a sucker for big tech, it’s drinking poison and expecting the other person to get sick.

    Bad stuff, also glad it’s not prevalent here.

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      I mean, one of my favorite things about these spaces is being able to frankly talk about our struggles and cheer people on through hard times, because we all share The Curse we were born with.

      For my taste though, when it is just nothing but ‘look at how pure my pain is, you wouldn’t understand, my pain is special and unique’ it’s all a little self indulgent 🤷🏻‍♀️

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        i get it, tbh ig its bc of how much tranners are isolated so i cant criticize them really

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    yeah it’s a lot more cozy and I feel more comfortable talking a bit more openly than leddit

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    Yeah 100%, I love how discussion-focused and chatty this site feels

    reminds me of pre-privating 4tran/ttttrans

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    this place is soooo much better than leddit. best thing to ever happen was getting my acc banned, second best thing was coming here.

    lets preserve this place, our holy sanctuary

    also 4t4 became a place for cissoids to spy on us

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    Waow! This post has reached 25 upvotes!