>opens reddit >sees soph dooming
the more things change, the more they stay the same 😔
Tbh all the posts are just the same 5 posts over and over forever
the same 5 songs gif
the absence of soph has been
i’m not gonna say a good thing but it’s been refreshing
I dunno,
Y’all hate on her a bit too much,
She is literally no different than like 70% of the “I’m horrible I hate my life I’m so sad and awful” posts on 4T4, but she seems to get hated on because she was ONCE hopeful?
I dunno, I’m basically a newfag, only been a member of this wretched hive of scum And villainy for a smidgen past a year
it’s just really annoying to see someone so lucky act like they have the same struggles as you that goes for anyone
Nobody born with this curse is “lucky”, we’re all cursed, Even if somebody has blockers from 11 and HRT from 14, they will still be barren, still have fleshcraft instead of fertility,
None of us are “Lucky”.
it sucks being trans but in terms of trans people you can absolutely be lucky
Crab bucket mentality…
let’s all gather round the campfire and jump for joy as estrogenie posts the my life is so haaaaaaarereeeddddddd post for the 1900000th time in the past 3 days even though she has a supportive family, passes, gets surgeries paid for, is rich, has access to mental health services, has friends that support her, has literally everyone reminding her of this 24/7, and gets dismissive and upset when you dare to challenge any negative thoughts she has
if you don’t do this it’s crab in a bucket mentality
Fair dues, I was grasping for the most readily at hand shorthand, and that was lazy , and bitchy.
Soz.
She is fucking rich, with a parents that supports her and pays for all her surgeries. And she’s a pretty to top it all off.
And I never dwell on my appearance, nor do I honlarping, so I don’t have a glass ceiling and I can talk about these things.
Idk if the “glass sealing” expression exist in English, but still
Glass Ceiling exists, but I think it might mean something different, in English it’s used to mean a barrier that is invisible (or not acknowledged) but still very very real.
And yes, I definitely hear you, I really dislike the instinct to doom only and always and irrationally and refusing any acknowledgement of any sliver of hope or happiness,
(In fact I know my thick-headed sense of hope (or at least stubborn refusal to ever accept or assume defeat) seems to upset a fair few folks here 🙃) but I think what I’m saying is that I don’t see what she does as different than what like 60% of the sub does 🤷🏻♀️
Oh…In my language, it kind of means “I don’t make those mistakes, therefore I can criticize,” it comes from the expression “don’t throw stones if your house has a glass sealing.”
And I also try to be a full-time hopecore fan; sometimes I break down and cry a little, but I never fall into doom.
And I LOVE how one saying can take on such different meanings across different languages, that’s really cool, especially since “Don’t throw stones from glass houses” is also a saying in English, which means the same thing I gather, basically “Shut up with your criticism if you act the same way”.
Language is cool… 🤓
And to be clear , you aint one of those 60%, you do things that are scary to you and then reflect upon them, you have failures but also have, and acknowledge and speak about your successes , you have bad days and good ones, you’re one of the 3Dimensional people here
Thank you :D
(Also, never want to miss an opportunity to say this, a damned good writer).
Its mostly the whole “been doing it for 5 years” thing people dislike
The same 3 posts, over and over and over and over ad aeternum
it’s this for me. I was shocked when I came back to 4t spaces and she was STILL making the same posts years later. I just feel bad for her, she’s stuck :/
yeah it is sad but shes so rude and explosive to anyone who tries to help her that like, shes clearly denied a thousand+ people who tried to pull her back, at that point i cant feel too too bad
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Also- the BA thing actually did strike me as possibly fucking terrifying ,
Like if it was bad, it would feel SO bad … a whole new body horror.
she could be the last person on earth and she would still be dooming on the sub
If she woke up cis tomorrow, she would be dooming.
literally
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Graças a deus ela me bloqueou.
Wow, I was so on autopilot that I spoke in Portuguese, akakakak
I sad “thank god she blocks me”
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I wish i was as pretty as soph, i wish i had started hrt at 19 like her
sometimes a sister is stuck in that sisyphean dooming and can’t escape…tragic.
