I am afraid I don’t namepass cause my choosen name doesn’t fit me probably and seems awkward and sneedy… it’s too feminine and I’m too ugly and to neverpasser… an androgynous name would be better… also it’s very sneedy probably… it’s too unique… I’ve never seen anybody with that name… it’s not as bad as Lilith… but kinda as bad because it’s also biblical and hebrew (I’m Arab… I’m a traitor and should kill myself and be raped for having a Jewish name instead of an Arabic name. I’m scum)…

How’s you’re name situation…

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    picrel is me fuck i’m a Black american man named simon. ffs called out for my simple ass name

    ehhh ethnic names are kinda controversial in my ethnicity. taking an ‘authentic african name’ is seen as corny or very Hotep. but taking a Black american-ish name is frowned upon because it sets our children up for workplace discrimination so they get stuck in the ghetto forever. i’ve never thought indepth about it because i pretty much picked my name from a fictional character who looks like me. and its a common name anyway in xtian places, and Black americans are very xtian so it won’t get me any weird looks or anything. its very me.

    honestly op why dont you have a jewish first name, arabaic middle name, and vice versa? are there middle names in your culture?

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      Because (some) jews are frankly the devil… that’s the common view here… it would be an issue and yeah we do have middle names

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        do you mean your community would bully you for having a different name? that sucks majorly

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          No I mean my father would call me a jew and kill me for being a tranny and say the queer Jewish cabal has brainwashed me and that I’m a traitor to my people and to my religion and family and that I am the enemy and now a dirty jew…

          He’s made similar allusions in the past

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              What? That’s just… normal. My family has done worse. The murder part was exaggerated but besides that… yeah…

              My family already has essentially exiled and driven out of the family my cognitively impared cousin, who they hated anyway for being impared, he was also raped as a girl by his father, they exiled him from the family for being transmasc when he transitioned…

              They depise him, especially my father

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    My name is going to be my name but with one letter removed at the end which makes it a female one. But this way I’ll probably be guaranteed to be deadnamed

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    nothing clockier than a girl having an english name while not being a native english speaker

    i beg of you, just choose a native lang name

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      Its not an English name… it sounds English but actually it’s ethnic… well idk… also I’m a westoid so idk how that changes things… still an ethnic westoid… actually a super ugly super ethnic westoid but idk… guess I am just fucked…

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    deadname was gigaethnic, rare and read femme in the states tho its actually masc, name-name is westoid, common and femme

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        Sorry, sweetheart. I am running on zero sleep. I did not read. I felt it was inappropriate to post. I am white as a ghost (Irish).

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    im also an arab with a non arab name its a gender neutral turkish name, i like it but i eventually wanna choose an arabic second name

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    i’d say it’s western since it’s most common in scandinavia, but it also is common in armenia which kinda fits since my mom has armenian roots

    is it really that bad that your name is hebrew? i’m half arab and my deadname was hebrew, but maybe that wasn’t such a big deal because we’re christian arabs idk

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    choose something that fits you ig, I know alot of ‘‘ethnic’’ West Asians with western names but only certain western names