when u meet a man how concerned r u that he secretly wants to fuck u?

  • RtHonAlice
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    5 days ago

    Yeah, by a boomer and his maybe 40yo mate AT THE SAME TIME in a pub. I wanted to go there with a friend, but he decided he didn’t want to come, so I went alone. There were no free tables, so I had to sit at a large one with other people at the other end. While I was eating and drinking these two men at my table start talking to me. It seemed harmless at first, until I noticed that they saw me as a woman. They asked me stuff, like what I’m doing here alone, so I told them my mate ditched me. They started insulting him pretty badly and said he has to be a complete moron to ditch “a princess like you”. At that point I noticed they wanted me badly and it was so scary. I was confident they’d be extremely angry and maybe violent if they found out I’m a tranner. I managed to keep my composure, finished my meal really quickly (they said it’s cute how I wolf down my food) and left. My heart was beating so fast and I nearly cried. Since then I only to go to pubs and stuff with my gf.

    To answer the other question, I don’t trust men at all. The only reason why I don’t suspect that others want to shag me is that I see myself as a hon and loathe how I look.

  • Prairillot
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    4 days ago

    Plenty it dropped off in California when I hit 19 and it made me think I was ugly but in last few years it’s been way more often

  • RandomlyGenerated
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    5 days ago

    no

    i have only ever considered that one man secretly wanted to fuck me but i think hes just really outgoing

  • Tamara
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    5 days ago

    Yeah, a lot, by both men and women. Once I even had my hand kissed lol

    Saying more would be too much bragging

  • UnfortunatelyAlex
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    5 days ago

    no, men on grindr have said things but thats the bottom of the barrel. men on there will have sex with anything

  • Wandering
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    5 days ago

    yeah. much less so now that I’m older and past my prime I guess

  • nowhere girl
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    5 days ago

    whenever i step outside i automatically have 10 billion moids ogling me but none have ever approached me

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    4 days ago

    There are people that go outside without being catcalled and/or touched? Sounds fake.

    I have such an abysmal self image that I can’t imagine why anyone would find me interesting in that way, so I am always surprised when they hit on me so explicitely

  • t. choder
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    5 days ago

    Most times I can confirm I’ve been hit on, it’s usually when I’m with somebody else, and they witness it happen, and they’re like “woaaahhh he was so hitting on you!”, and like it literally would never have occurred to me to interpret it that way without help. There have been times that were a bit more obvious, but like I really need that shit spelled out for me…

    There have been times I’d see guys look at me for a bit too long, or I’d catch them looking down my shirt, or wtever… but like sometimes people just space-out while looking at someone’s direction, and some people just just looking at boobs to look at boobs and not necessarily because the person or body attached to them are all that special, so I try not to assume too much from that stuff…