If you have some really luckshit features, but objectively don’t pass you’re not larping being a hon unless you’re complaining about those features being bad. This is especially true if you’re one of the unsavable kinds of hon (where like surgery doesn’t even exist). Idk like I can see that people are BDD over things they shouldn’t be, but its not honlarping unless you objectively just pass to 90% of strangers and are still calling yourself a neverpasser or something.
My idea of “hon” is and always will be someone who does not pass. I simply think the bar you need to reach to pass has gotten near impossible so it’s kinda pointless to assume most trannies can pass nowadays. You need to be essentially perfect or very short with only a couple very small flaws.
Most hons aren’t abject ugly either, especially twinkhons etc.
hmm I see. yeah the bar for passing is undoubtedly higher now, to the point cis women get transvestigated. at a certain point people’s ability to clock is so warped it starts losing meaning to me.
also a strict hon/pass label doesn’t really include much room for nuance, and as much as people don’t want to admit it, there’s some degree of subjectivity to it also.