If you have some really luckshit features, but objectively don’t pass you’re not larping being a hon unless you’re complaining about those features being bad. This is especially true if you’re one of the unsavable kinds of hon (where like surgery doesn’t even exist). Idk like I can see that people are BDD over things they shouldn’t be, but its not honlarping unless you objectively just pass to 90% of strangers and are still calling yourself a neverpasser or something.
hmm I see. yeah the bar for passing is undoubtedly higher now, to the point cis women get transvestigated. at a certain point people’s ability to clock is so warped it starts losing meaning to me.
also a strict hon/pass label doesn’t really include much room for nuance, and as much as people don’t want to admit it, there’s some degree of subjectivity to it also.