Literally everyone in my life thought I was gay, from people, including my brother, calling me the F-Slur, to constantly being asked “are you gay?” by people at school, and my mom literally telling me “make sure your partner wears a condom” in highschool (I never even dated anyone). Like genuinely, how did no one see, the only thing standing between me and being a young shit was learning the definition of trans at like 10 or 11 instead of 17. There a ton signs of me being dysphoric for my entire life, but everyone blamed it on “being gay” or autism.

I a silver lining is, even the conservative members of my family are supportive because I was such a faggot.

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    Cissies don’t wants to admit that being a troon is an option for acting fruity growing up. Someone’s child/sibling being gay is simpler for them as then they don’t have to do anything but wait for the boyfriend to come home one thanksgiving.

    Same for me tbhon I have had so many people think I am gay. My mother probably still thinks I am gay.

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      Yeah, I guess so, but a lot of my family were/is varying levels of homophobic, especially the old ones, so idk

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        Just kind of what came to my mind. I’m sorry about your family I wish people saw as as we are, normal.

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    Yeah everyone around me assumed I was gay and when I told my family i was trans I got told I’m not surprised because I have a trans family member no one told me about i could have started so much earlier if I had known 😔

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    omg same, people around me always assumed that i was a lesbian