• RtHonAlice
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      It is. It’s sad that I had to think for quite while to come up with anything. Treating myself well is really difficult.

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        yeah i understand i think that its something you can practice though so you should try saying nice things about yourself as often as you can

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          That’s true. Habit is the strongest motivator the human mind has to offer. People underestimate it because it seems mundane, but they shouldn’t. It’s the only reason why victims of abuse seek out abusive partners. I should use this force for a good purpose.

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            you should!! you deserve to be able to treat yourself well!

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              Thank you. I’m scared of becoming haughty if I treat myself too well, but treating myself poorly isn’t healthy either.

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                i think you should treat yourself well even if you become haughty i think it would be pretty hard for anyone on here to really be haughty

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                  I can be very smug…I’m actually scared that I will be a terribly arrogant person, should FFS turn me into a gigapassoid.

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                    maybe but i think that you should solve that problem when it comes up and focus on being kind to yourself now