• RtHonAlice
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    6 days ago

    That’s true. Habit is the strongest motivator the human mind has to offer. People underestimate it because it seems mundane, but they shouldn’t. It’s the only reason why victims of abuse seek out abusive partners. I should use this force for a good purpose.

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      6 days ago

      you should!! you deserve to be able to treat yourself well!

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        6 days ago

        Thank you. I’m scared of becoming haughty if I treat myself too well, but treating myself poorly isn’t healthy either.

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          6 days ago

          i think you should treat yourself well even if you become haughty i think it would be pretty hard for anyone on here to really be haughty

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            6 days ago

            I can be very smug…I’m actually scared that I will be a terribly arrogant person, should FFS turn me into a gigapassoid.

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              6 days ago

              maybe but i think that you should solve that problem when it comes up and focus on being kind to yourself now