idk what to do i’m already 25 and never been in a relationship. i hate going to irl social events because i get mogged by cis women but i hate the idea of dating apps even more

um same
felt. I definitely gave up on ever hoping to have a relationship but friends could make me a lot less lonely too. ofc not getting any lmao I’m basically done trying the last times I went to any social event I had a panic attack before I talked to anyone
same a few weeks ago i tried to go to a hobby event just to try and make friends, and i walked all the way there but got too anxious and went straight back home
god that happened to me the last 4 times I tried to go to any such events. I was trying really hard recently because I’m in a new city and new country but no matter how often I tired exactly that happened.
it’s all about hobbies. hobbies connect you with people and people love people with hobbies.
is sortfagging a hobby
no because it doesnt connect you with people irl. but writing or art are hobbies that are transferable
it’s over 😞
I’m sorry. As retarded and irritating as it can sound, heckin’ kweer spaces aren’t actually all that bad if you’re willing to file through them for normal human beings.
i’ve tried queer spaces too






