idk what to do i’m already 25 and never been in a relationship. i hate going to irl social events because i get mogged by cis women but i hate the idea of dating apps even more

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    1 month ago

    felt. I definitely gave up on ever hoping to have a relationship but friends could make me a lot less lonely too. ofc not getting any lmao I’m basically done trying the last times I went to any social event I had a panic attack before I talked to anyone

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      1 month ago

      same a few weeks ago i tried to go to a hobby event just to try and make friends, and i walked all the way there but got too anxious and went straight back home

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        1 month ago

        god that happened to me the last 4 times I tried to go to any such events. I was trying really hard recently because I’m in a new city and new country but no matter how often I tired exactly that happened.

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    1 month ago

    it’s all about hobbies. hobbies connect you with people and people love people with hobbies.

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    I’m sorry. As retarded and irritating as it can sound, heckin’ kweer spaces aren’t actually all that bad if you’re willing to file through them for normal human beings.