can i unlearn it or something

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    11 days ago

    there’s no cure once it turns into full androphilia and you start to love male body traits on their own. there might still be time to save yourself nona…

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      11 days ago

      idk i dont think i can save myself from it. i get feelings like this without having any moid interaction in real life (im being forced to boymode and i dont really count it if they just see me as a guy, the feelings dont appear anyways because of this issue). its all purely online fantasy based. it may just be joever if anything ever happens irl

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        11 days ago

        hope you find a nice guy then. once you find a good one, men are amazing <3

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          11 days ago

          i hope so too, but is it even possible to find a nice guy as a troon?

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            11 days ago

            it’s not impossible, but it’s extremely difficult to find one that actually wants to be in a serious relationship with you.

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                11 days ago

                I’d choose to be gynephilic in a heartbeat if I could tbh. it’d be SO easy to be t4t lesbian.

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                  11 days ago

                  yeah… i actually thought i am one right after trooning out but well. i was so sure of it too but yeah :( something just changed randomly and over time it got worse and worse. the androphilia is like a virus

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                    11 days ago

                    yeah… it’s like that sometimes. i went straight to men because being a lesbian and trans seemed unthinkable to me in early 2010s, then I tried to date other trans women a bit, but over the years I’ve just become more sure I’m only sexually interested in men. I can have deep emotional connections with women and maybe even romantic but there’s just no sexual spark or sexual fantasies for me really.

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              10 days ago

              well obviously. straight men are straight men after all