can i unlearn it or something

  • Wandering
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    7 days ago

    it’s not impossible, but it’s extremely difficult to find one that actually wants to be in a serious relationship with you.

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        7 days ago

        I’d choose to be gynephilic in a heartbeat if I could tbh. it’d be SO easy to be t4t lesbian.

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          yeah… i actually thought i am one right after trooning out but well. i was so sure of it too but yeah :( something just changed randomly and over time it got worse and worse. the androphilia is like a virus

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            yeah… it’s like that sometimes. i went straight to men because being a lesbian and trans seemed unthinkable to me in early 2010s, then I tried to date other trans women a bit, but over the years I’ve just become more sure I’m only sexually interested in men. I can have deep emotional connections with women and maybe even romantic but there’s just no sexual spark or sexual fantasies for me really.