can i unlearn it or something

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    11 days ago

    idk i dont think i can save myself from it. i get feelings like this without having any moid interaction in real life (im being forced to boymode and i dont really count it if they just see me as a guy, the feelings dont appear anyways because of this issue). its all purely online fantasy based. it may just be joever if anything ever happens irl

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      11 days ago

      hope you find a nice guy then. once you find a good one, men are amazing <3

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        11 days ago

        i hope so too, but is it even possible to find a nice guy as a troon?

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            10 days ago

            well obviously. straight men are straight men after all

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          11 days ago

          it’s not impossible, but it’s extremely difficult to find one that actually wants to be in a serious relationship with you.

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              11 days ago

              I’d choose to be gynephilic in a heartbeat if I could tbh. it’d be SO easy to be t4t lesbian.

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                11 days ago

                yeah… i actually thought i am one right after trooning out but well. i was so sure of it too but yeah :( something just changed randomly and over time it got worse and worse. the androphilia is like a virus

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                  11 days ago

                  yeah… it’s like that sometimes. i went straight to men because being a lesbian and trans seemed unthinkable to me in early 2010s, then I tried to date other trans women a bit, but over the years I’ve just become more sure I’m only sexually interested in men. I can have deep emotional connections with women and maybe even romantic but there’s just no sexual spark or sexual fantasies for me really.