I am able to stand naked in front of the mirror… it doesn’t feel great but also it doesn’t feel horrible…
I don’t understand how dypshoria feels… sometimes it feels like dysphoria isn’t even real… which makes me so faketrans to be honest… because for you all… of course dysphoria is real… but for me… idk what even counts as dysphoria or how it feels like…
I don’t have any emotions… I’m just kinda numb tbh…
Yesterday I slept in bed half naked… it didn’t really bother me… yes I felt slightly uncomfortable and tried not looking at my hairy chest and tried covering myself with the sheets all the time and all that…
But like… I don’t actually feel dysphoria clearly… physically or mentally… I don’t flinch when called sir or a man or he… it’s just what I am used to honestly…
Facial hair makes me uncomfortable and depressed but I’ve hadn’t shaved until yesterday for two weeks and yes I did feel depressed but I didn’t have a problem touching it or looking into the mirror…
I still felt better once I shaved… like a fog lifted… but that’s not enough… that’s not enough dysphoria to actually justify transition to be honest and mixed with all my mental illness… transitioning seems ludicrous.
Spending my entire 20s transitioning, losing my family, my fertility, my youth, and then failing and not passing and ending up 30y old and lost in life… how is that supposed to be a food plan in the slightest…
When on the contrary I could man up, looksmaxx, try switching majors to guarantee a job later, try getting a girlfriend, marry with 28y old and then just be an actual worthwhile human being instead of an ugly tranny failure at 30 who transitioned because of mentall illness, escapism and no tangible dysphoria.
So… is dysphoria actually real and how does it feel?
Being trans is not synonymous with 100% failing at life. It makes it harder, but it doesn’t make it impossible by any means. I hate to say this, but the trannies who are failures are just more likely to be on the internet so its probably all you are seeing. Yes you will face discrimination because you are a minority, unfortunately this is an immutable part of who you are.
Hmm… yeah… i guess you’re right…
I am just so obsessed with proving to myself that I am actually trans… obsessed with resolving uncertainty and making no possible mistakes… and I can’t do it anymore because I’m just so numb
I kinda had that too my mother forced me to uhm, live a normal life out of anything spiraling out of control so I’m glad for that. But I’m still numb and unsure about tranny stuff. What if i’m just lying to myself about dysphoria?? Sometimes i feel just okay, i feel like i can live the life of a maid like i always have. But i do think about that bout of dysphoria i had a week ago, did it really come from inside me, or was it caused by demons?
I don’t think demons cause dysphoria… that’s a little silly… you can’t exorcise the trans or gay away… trust me