I find puritanism weird tbh, it’s the kind of stuff that produces those gross repressed sex pest republicans that keep getting exposed. Like it’s fine to prefer stuff like cuddles over sex or to not be interested in sex at all, but don’t impose that on others or force yourself to be that way when you do have sexual desires. You’re not on hrt yet right? Then ig i get it more since a male sex drive is probably forced on you against your will, hrt would help a lottttttt with that
Yeah makes sense but like idk sex is scary… my idea of it is also probably so messed by me growing up with porn and developing a sexual compulsive disorder
I find puritanism weird tbh, it’s the kind of stuff that produces those gross repressed sex pest republicans that keep getting exposed. Like it’s fine to prefer stuff like cuddles over sex or to not be interested in sex at all, but don’t impose that on others or force yourself to be that way when you do have sexual desires. You’re not on hrt yet right? Then ig i get it more since a male sex drive is probably forced on you against your will, hrt would help a lottttttt with that
Yeah makes sense but like idk sex is scary… my idea of it is also probably so messed by me growing up with porn and developing a sexual compulsive disorder
Yeah that makes sense, I hope you can get more comfortable with yourself and overcome that
Yeah… I just idk need advice on how to do that to be quite frank and honest…
I‘m sure there are people capable of that, but sadly that’s not me sorry… i‘d recommend a good therapist for that ig… and you getting on hrt of course
I’ve got a therapist but sadly he doesn’t want to talk with me about gender or sexuality cause it’s not “his area of expertise” and I’m stuck with him
You really need a new therapist…
Well I already signed stuff and he’s also new… I just started threw weeks ago and he does DBT which hopefully will help with my mild BPD…
Hm well, best of luck to you