• Narcissus
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    4 days ago

    youre one of my favourite people ive met on 4t4 but i get it because i think everyone hates me too😔

  • UnfortunatelyAlex
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    4 days ago

    i literally messaged you first when we first talked to each other 1 on 1. i have never once found you annoying and if i had more to say/if your situation was different id definitely reach out to you more. youre one of my favorite people here which is odd considering youre literally me and i dont like myself but here we are

    • Loose_Sandwich9217OP
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      4 days ago

      youre one of my favorite people here which is odd considering youre literally me and i dont like myself but here we are

      this is real actually youre on of my favourite people here too

  • Ababil
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    4 days ago

    just stop caring about people and think of yourself first, try to stop pleasing people and don’t be afraid to make people mad about things. just dont be an asshole there is a healthy balance between the two

    • helmets_for_cats
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      the problem is that a lot of cis people genuinely have transphobia brainworms nowadays so even if I do the whole “nobody thinks about me” thing a lot of people actually DO, especially if you are very visibly trans

      although I’m probably really biased being in america

      • Magpie
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        yea, that’s definitely a more complicated situation. i’m not american; however, i’d honestly assume very few people in the real world actually care that much about trannies. like, you’d probably get stares or the occasional shitty comment, but i don’t think most people in the west care enough about anything to really hate trannies. in my experience, the vitriolic hatred is mostly an online thing. (it definitely varies by location, though.)

    • Loose_Sandwich9217OP
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      4 days ago

      im annoying and have a tendency to ruin things

      plus i crashout constantly and am literally cis idk why more people here dont hate me

      • nowhere girl
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        4 days ago

        you’re one of the least annoying ppl here. idk i like you at least

        • nowhere girl
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          plus even tho ur not a tranny technically, youve experienced gender dysphoria so you’re in the camaraderie circle too