i get mogged by the “never passers” on here. ill never get surgery of any sort im doomed to be a mannish abomination for the rest of my days

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    But you DID say you passed, right? I don’t ever mean to make assumptions or anything. But I know all too well that the mirror can feel distorted at times. I’m really sorry, Soph. I hope it passes. You’re a very kind and lovely woman. You deserve to feel comfort in your own skin.

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      youre such a good person i dont deserve any of these things you say about me you are so kind and wonderful

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        We’re here for you Soph. Please, show yourself the grace and kindness you show me. Even if it’s just a fraction.

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            You’re so, so kind to all of us. I wish the mirror was as kind to you. I promise, you passing isn’t just a delusion.

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              i dont know how a person can be this kind

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                I’m just saying nice things, Sophia. I wish I could do more for you, like give you a hug or pay for a surgery. I’m in awe of your resilience and kindness. Please rest and treat yourself a bit. You deserve it.

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                  thank you for saying nice things it means so much to me you make this world such a better place

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      the mirror is distorted for me the opposite way that it is for most people sometimes i am given the delusion that I pass when i obviously obviously do not

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        I don’t think you’re delusional, soph. I really do hope this passes. You’re no monster. I can’t do much, but I’m here if you want to talk with me.

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          i cant kill myself right now so you dont need to worry i just have to envision the rest of my life and its humiliating just looking like this forever ill never be able to afford any surgeries so i am truly just stuck in this horrible body for the rest of my life i wish i could kill myself because none of this will ever get better so killing myself is the obvious choice

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            It will absolutely get better, Soph. You’re not in a good state of mind. I know that pain very closely. I will always worry for you. I hope things change.

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              thank you so much youre so kind to me i do hope things get better but i just dont see it