surprisingly tough. i had to explain that

  1. i dont want to be a supermodel

  2. there are lots of other differences between me and supermodels

  3. the cost to fix height, along with making my arms proportional, would be too immense to ever achieve

  4. her being told she looks like a guy is because they realized they were wrong, i get stares because they know theyre right

and more!!! i just want to be able to be open with her, why does she insist on not understanding? all she has to do is listen to me :(

  • noneday
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    3 days ago

    same stuff with my mom. for instance she won’t ever acknowledge my appearance being that of a man. it took a lot to get her to admit that i look like a man, and she eventually did, and then she was like “there’s other beauty standards dw!”

    like,

    yeah that’s called being a man

    i cried after that and i never cry. it would be great if anyone can actually understand that im not a man