like a month ago i discovered this girl was from my area we exchanged each other’s discord and chatted a bit she said we could meet someday but i’m scared to do so
it’s been years since i last talked or hung out with other people (that aren’t my parents) or strangers i don’t have any friends and i’m a mess when talking irl and i don’t know how to hold a conversation i’m very awkward to be around i practically have 0 social skills
i’m also kind of intimidated(?) by her from the small convo we had she seems to have such a different life than mine she has lots of friends, a partner, studies and goes to classes, etc and she passes while i’m a stupid neet that doesn’t even pass a little i feel very out of place i don’t want to ‘taint’ her life with my presence or be a bother
still i feel like it’d be nice if we met i just wish i were a more presentable and a better version of myself but i think it’s better if it doesn’t happen
you should try to meet her, especially since she mentioned meeting up and showing interest in it. just do your best to put effort in your appearance that day
it’s worth putting urself out there bro u got this I believe in u
you gotta start somewhere and she’s giving you the in to be a part of her life. Socialization is important, your social skills are certainly atrophied but they only get stronger by exercising them, and quite frankly, if she’s on 4tran she should expect the people she hits up to be dysfunctional and depressive and disabled in a number of ways, so I’m just kinda assuming there’s nothing you could really be that should surprise her too much if she has any idea who the userbase of these spaces tends to be…
