some straight trans women end up like theyfabs in the sense that they never get over being gay when they were men and decide that they have a magical gay soul essence that makes them oppressed even though being straight helps them get care from doctors since they are sexually accessible to them.
Very true if I want care all I have to do is prostitute myself to a guy I don’t know in hopes he’ll lower the cost on the operation that he knows I need, and doubly hope that he doesn’t use that power imbalance to permanently fuck me mentally and physically
I see where your coming from. Not really much more to say than essentially what you said that being straight is socially better.
It’s gotta be hard for people to shift their perspective from growing up being continuously ostracized for being gay to that becoming straight changes your place in the world and that makes your life better in some ways. All the while newly becoming ostracized for being trans makes it easy to transplant their experienced homophobia to transphobia.
Very straight passing if a straight trans woman doesn’t recognize the benefits of heterosexuality.
some straight trans women end up like theyfabs in the sense that they never get over being gay when they were men and decide that they have a magical gay soul essence that makes them oppressed even though being straight helps them get care from doctors since they are sexually accessible to them.
Very true if I want care all I have to do is prostitute myself to a guy I don’t know in hopes he’ll lower the cost on the operation that he knows I need, and doubly hope that he doesn’t use that power imbalance to permanently fuck me mentally and physically
i was with you untill that last part 😭😭 being able to sell your body in order to get basic medical care is not a form of privilege
not in an absolute sense but relative to people who will be considered “agp men” and denied care upon revealing their sexual orientation, yes
I see where your coming from. Not really much more to say than essentially what you said that being straight is socially better.
It’s gotta be hard for people to shift their perspective from growing up being continuously ostracized for being gay to that becoming straight changes your place in the world and that makes your life better in some ways. All the while newly becoming ostracized for being trans makes it easy to transplant their experienced homophobia to transphobia.
Very straight passing if a straight trans woman doesn’t recognize the benefits of heterosexuality.