this is such a shallow view of human behaviour kinda, genuinely such a large part of who you and how human society works are is purely nature. it doesnt make those things fake or not real or changeable on a whim

    • Loose_Sandwich9217OP
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      4 days ago

      well yeah components but a lot of things are still pretty solidly nurture nontheless. like factually my bpd was directly caused by my upbringing (nurture), that doesnt mean i can just stop or that its fake and gay.

      literally everything is a mix because of how people work but using that to say that nothing is nurture and humans are predetermined is kinda stupid asf

        • Loose_Sandwich9217OP
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          4 days ago

          ok, but there is literally a direct cause and effect between my childhood and me having it, just because not everyone wouldnt have had it doesnt mean it wasnt caused by my environment?? like it pretty directly was

          again, this is just how people work that doesnt mean it wasnt caused by my environement

            • Loose_Sandwich9217OP
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              4 days ago

              I mean unironically that is kinda how developing a taste for food works, thats why the term “aquired taste” exists because babies are born basically only wanting sugar but develop tastes for other things over time through exposure

              Also literally trauma and mistreatment did cause my bpd thats just how personality disorders work what, it literally changes your brain chemistry because of the event. if i had a different childhood i wouldnt have it