I’m usually a pretty hardcore boymode extremist, but today my gf asked me if I think boymode really is the right thing for me in the long term. My therapist asked me the same not too long ago and wants to push me to girlmode. I don’t know what to do. My body is alright-ish, just too fat, but I loathe my face. My voice is untrained and bad. My gf says my body language is very feminine, but at the same time she says when I speak I’m more brash and blunt than most men. I feel I would be a very poor copy of a woman. Boymode is simple, boymode is safe, why do people question the mode of the boy? What am I supposed to do? I just want a relatively easy life, not to become a hon or optics nuke just because girlmoding is something one has to do, no matter the consequences or chances of success.