I’m usually a pretty hardcore boymode extremist, but today my gf asked me if I think boymode really is the right thing for me in the long term. My therapist asked me the same not too long ago and wants to push me to girlmode. I don’t know what to do. My body is alright-ish, just too fat, but I loathe my face. My voice is untrained and bad. My gf says my body language is very feminine, but at the same time she says when I speak I’m more brash and blunt than most men. I feel I would be a very poor copy of a woman. Boymode is simple, boymode is safe, why do people question the mode of the boy? What am I supposed to do? I just want a relatively easy life, not to become a hon or optics nuke just because girlmoding is something one has to do, no matter the consequences or chances of success.

  • CutePlushies
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    4 days ago

    I’ve seen you (I thiiiink?), if you girlmoded you would not be an optics nuke hon you don’t have the looks or build to be that at all. Never heard u speak but yah maybe voice train if you sound like that.

    • RtHonAliceOP
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      4 days ago

      I have never posted my face on the internet anywhere, ever.

      I’m voice training a bit every other way, but I don’t really know how to progress I wish I could control resonance and vocal weight at will, but apparently that’s bad and people are supposed to get used to a different kind of voice via practice to avoid strain.