Here’s a picture of somebody who kinda looks like me. Below you will find calcifications/corrections with regards to my actual facial appearance:

  • My skin tone is more fair (Fritzpatrick 3-4)

  • My hair is more wavy and frizzy (worse)

  • My face and nose is less in width

  • My midface is a little longer

  • My jaw is stronger by A Lot!

  • My ears are bigger than his

  • My nose is a little less hooked

  • My nostrils aren’t as flared

  • My lips are smaller than his

  • My teeth are not all straight

  • I have visible beard shadow

  • I am definelty older than him

  • I am skinner (fet distribution)

  • I don’t give of chuddy vibes

Now here are my body measurements:

  • Height 173cm (bad posture)

  • Weight 58kg (low body fat%)

  • Shoe size 42 (european men’s)

  • Bideltoid width 44cm

  • Shoulder circumference 96cm

  • Ribcage circumference (sternum level) 78cm

  • Waist circumference (umbilical level) 74cm

  • Waist circumference (above umbilical) 71cm

  • Full hip circumference (widest point) 83cm

< Rotated ribcage (uneven, not level, see image) >

Please give me advise on what I should do now. What are my chances of passing? Is it over for me?

  • RtHonAlice
    2·
    10 days ago

    That is a rough situation, but fear of outing yourself doesn’t make you any less trans. In the other posts you’re questioning if you’re trans, well, you are and threatening or beating you doesn’t change that, contrary to what cissoids believe. The first step here is to accept yourself for what you are and then look for feasible ways to navigate this. Repping isn’t one of them.

    • DysphoriaGirlOP
      2·
      10 days ago

      But the fear doesn’t go away and it paralyzes me… I just feel so paralyzed

    • DysphoriaGirlOP
      2·
      10 days ago

      I will try, I promise but I don’t know if I can. I just feel so utterly trapped

      • RtHonAlice
        2·
        10 days ago

        You can do it. And that’s what I’m trying to explain here, you WILL do it sooner or later anyway because anything else isn’t an option. The question is just when.

        • DysphoriaGirlOP
          2·
          10 days ago

          I… just wanna be happy yk… why does it have to hurt so much to try to be happy?

          • RtHonAlice
            2·
            10 days ago

            Because there are people and ideologies who don’t allow others to pursue happiness to protect their own privilege and power.