Here’s a picture of somebody who kinda looks like me. Below you will find calcifications/corrections with regards to my actual facial appearance:

  • My skin tone is more fair (Fritzpatrick 3-4)

  • My hair is more wavy and frizzy (worse)

  • My face and nose is less in width

  • My midface is a little longer

  • My jaw is stronger by A Lot!

  • My ears are bigger than his

  • My nose is a little less hooked

  • My nostrils aren’t as flared

  • My lips are smaller than his

  • My teeth are not all straight

  • I have visible beard shadow

  • I am definelty older than him

  • I am skinner (fet distribution)

  • I don’t give of chuddy vibes

Now here are my body measurements:

  • Height 173cm (bad posture)

  • Weight 58kg (low body fat%)

  • Shoe size 42 (european men’s)

  • Bideltoid width 44cm

  • Shoulder circumference 96cm

  • Ribcage circumference (sternum level) 78cm

  • Waist circumference (umbilical level) 74cm

  • Waist circumference (above umbilical) 71cm

  • Full hip circumference (widest point) 83cm

< Rotated ribcage (uneven, not level, see image) >

Please give me advise on what I should do now. What are my chances of passing? Is it over for me?

  • Narcissus
    7·
    10 days ago

    as some one who is similarly masculinised and older than most, i simply want to start hrt to minimise the pain because further masculinisation will break me mentally. i dont think too much about passing or measurements or any of it, thats for people who start young or get lucky unfortunately. i just want to not suffer like this.

    • mljemy
      7·
      10 days ago

      yeah thats the correct mentality, this “is it even worth it” shit just leads to john 50s

      i hope you become a passoid though im blessing you with it rn

    • DysphoriaGirlOP
      1·
      10 days ago

      I understand but isn’t not passing also suffering because if I don’t pass why would somebody love me or the world treat me like a human being? Isn’t the pain better than?

      • mljemy
        5·
        10 days ago

        how would you treat someone who doesnt pass from here?

        just in case the answer is “be disgusted and hate them”, then not everyone is as cruel about it as you

        but obvs hoping thats not the case and youd treat them nice in which case your comment is demonstrably false

        • DysphoriaGirlOP
          3·
          10 days ago

          I would treat them nicely but that’s just because I’m a freak too. Isn’t that kind of the consensus here. Don’t we all hate ourselves because we’re trans. Idk. People definitely hate us. And even if they are nice to us, they won’t ever be truly good to us. People can be nice, but that’s not the same as being loved and wanted and truthfully accepted

          • mljemy
            5·
            10 days ago

            hot take: people youre close with matter more than random chud strangers

            and most people here hate themselves for not starting at 13 i think, not just because they’re trans, thats just kinda how they be so, cant do much about it