• Wandering
    4·
    23 days ago

    hmm non-physical stuff is way more important, but for physical stuff:

    facial/body hair, strong, bigger than me is huge plus, nice face.

  • t. choder
    3·
    23 days ago

    I’m bi and I honestly struggle to answer physical attraction questions regarding both men and women. Like I’ll start thinking about physical things I can list, and then once I start describing those features, putting the attraction into words makes it seem less hot and more just vain and nonsensical, as I know it’s all stuff I can easily overlook a partner not having if I like them as a person…

    Having a muscular ass is pretty cool tho.

    • Wandering
      2·
      23 days ago

      yeah same. personality is way more attractive than any physical trait for me. physical stuff is just a bonus really

      • t. choder
        3·
        23 days ago

        So trve… like of course I’m not blind, I have my own ideas of being “physically hot”, sure, and some people match these general ideas of hotness far better than others… but it’s basically a tertiary consideration for a relationship.

  • pleasantaftertastes
    2·
    23 days ago

    I’m not a woman, but I like men with nice smiles and a lot of body hair. I also like it when they have longer hair and a little bulk.

  • Grandfather's Clock
    2·
    23 days ago

    Body hair, muscle mass and some body fat, some level of visible self-care showing he’s not just some chud is cool too

  • TGirlAltAccount
    1·
    23 days ago

    Big body that I can snuggle up to, some body hair can look nice I don’t mind chest and leg hair, well-kept facial and head hair looks nice, sometimes they have nice muscles and are strong and I could rest my head on their biceps and pecs, dick, so on so forth

  • anneneum
    1·
    23 days ago

    competence and being interesting (has my vibe, gets me, smart)