I’m bi and I honestly struggle to answer physical attraction questions regarding both men and women. Like I’ll start thinking about physical things I can list, and then once I start describing those features, putting the attraction into words makes it seem less hot and more just vain and nonsensical, as I know it’s all stuff I can easily overlook a partner not having if I like them as a person…
So trve… like of course I’m not blind, I have my own ideas of being “physically hot”, sure, and some people match these general ideas of hotness far better than others… but it’s basically a tertiary consideration for a relationship.
I’m bi and I honestly struggle to answer physical attraction questions regarding both men and women. Like I’ll start thinking about physical things I can list, and then once I start describing those features, putting the attraction into words makes it seem less hot and more just vain and nonsensical, as I know it’s all stuff I can easily overlook a partner not having if I like them as a person…
Having a muscular ass is pretty cool tho.
yeah same. personality is way more attractive than any physical trait for me. physical stuff is just a bonus really
So trve… like of course I’m not blind, I have my own ideas of being “physically hot”, sure, and some people match these general ideas of hotness far better than others… but it’s basically a tertiary consideration for a relationship.