probably controversial here, but i dont think u 100% need dysphoria 2 be trans, ofc if u put no effort in and complain that u dont get gendered correctly I think ur kinda silly. But at the same time in a perfect society we would just ask 4 eachothers pronouns regardless if u were cis or not, It feels humiliating tk be asked 4 ur pronouns rn but if this was normalised it would just be a normal thing. I also feel like enbys r apart of the trans umbrella (yes even “theyfabs”) they r still ostracised by society, sure alot of ppl just view them as quirky women but they r still treated lesser than cis people and infantalised (yes ik some r evil, but there r some horrific “normal” trans people too, generalising a whole group isnt helping anyone) ik yall wont agree bc im a cringe annoying “tenderqueer” that ahould be kicked out of tttt spaces for “gentrifying” it or wtv

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    I don’t agree with you, but I feel guilty that I don’t agree with you

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        I think you need dysphoria to be trans, and NBs can simply have dysphoria over not being NB enough.

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            No, I’m saying they actually have dysphoria and are mislabeling it

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              I just don’t think a person can transition medically without dysphoria. I think they do have dysphoria and are mislabeling it as something else.

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          I agree… people here tend to associate all non-binary people with nontranistioning nondysohoric future detrans theyfabs, and that’s not fair. Most non-binary people are more similar to binary trans people than they are different. A big chunk are even transsexuals.