probably controversial here, but i dont think u 100% need dysphoria 2 be trans, ofc if u put no effort in and complain that u dont get gendered correctly I think ur kinda silly. But at the same time in a perfect society we would just ask 4 eachothers pronouns regardless if u were cis or not, It feels humiliating tk be asked 4 ur pronouns rn but if this was normalised it would just be a normal thing. I also feel like enbys r apart of the trans umbrella (yes even “theyfabs”) they r still ostracised by society, sure alot of ppl just view them as quirky women but they r still treated lesser than cis people and infantalised (yes ik some r evil, but there r some horrific “normal” trans people too, generalising a whole group isnt helping anyone) ik yall wont agree bc im a cringe annoying “tenderqueer” that ahould be kicked out of tttt spaces for “gentrifying” it or wtv

  • pleasantaftertastes
    2·
    20 days ago

    like, I don’t know. it’s just hard to say this person is the same as me. But I’ll still always treat them with respect because whatever I’m a fake trans “nonbinary” anyway

    • CutePlushies
      4·
      20 days ago

      I think you need dysphoria to be trans, and NBs can simply have dysphoria over not being NB enough.

      • pleasantaftertastes
        3·
        20 days ago

        like if someone fully transitions medically though and doesn’t feel dysphoria are you still saying they aren’t trans?

        • CutePlushies
          2·
          20 days ago

          No, I’m saying they actually have dysphoria and are mislabeling it

        • wiwiky♄
          1·
          20 days ago

          transsexuality is a medical condition. it’s something you have, not something you do. just because I inject insulin doesn’t mean I’m a diabetic, for example.

          • CutePlushies
            2·
            20 days ago

            I just don’t think a person can transition medically without dysphoria. I think they do have dysphoria and are mislabeling it as something else.

      • Grandfather's Clock
        2·
        20 days ago

        I agree… people here tend to associate all non-binary people with nontranistioning nondysohoric future detrans theyfabs, and that’s not fair. Most non-binary people are more similar to binary trans people than they are different. A big chunk are even transsexuals.