probably controversial here, but i dont think u 100% need dysphoria 2 be trans, ofc if u put no effort in and complain that u dont get gendered correctly I think ur kinda silly. But at the same time in a perfect society we would just ask 4 eachothers pronouns regardless if u were cis or not, It feels humiliating tk be asked 4 ur pronouns rn but if this was normalised it would just be a normal thing. I also feel like enbys r apart of the trans umbrella (yes even “theyfabs”) they r still ostracised by society, sure alot of ppl just view them as quirky women but they r still treated lesser than cis people and infantalised (yes ik some r evil, but there r some horrific “normal” trans people too, generalising a whole group isnt helping anyone) ik yall wont agree bc im a cringe annoying “tenderqueer” that ahould be kicked out of tttt spaces for “gentrifying” it or wtv
Yeah I agree w most of this butI’m an outlier. Non-binary hate is genuinely just transphobic and they are trans definitionally cuz they go thru all the same struggles. I think you need dysphoria to be trans not in an exclusionary way but in a ‘dysphoria comes in many different forms and if someone genuinely didn’t have dysphoria they would just be cis, so trans people saying they don’t have dysphoria are probably mistaken’ way
yeah thats what i meant withthe 100% dysphoria, like a trans woman can love having a small chest but despises having male genitals and a low voice. or the inverse they can hate having a small chest but love having male genitals. I think hating on ppl 4 not hating every inch of their body is dumbbb. But what would ik i hate everything abt mysrlf
I think that a lot of it comes from jealousy tbhon. Like I wish I could love my rapestick and I can understand why someone would get frustrated when others seem to completely sidestep their own struggles