probably controversial here, but i dont think u 100% need dysphoria 2 be trans, ofc if u put no effort in and complain that u dont get gendered correctly I think ur kinda silly. But at the same time in a perfect society we would just ask 4 eachothers pronouns regardless if u were cis or not, It feels humiliating tk be asked 4 ur pronouns rn but if this was normalised it would just be a normal thing. I also feel like enbys r apart of the trans umbrella (yes even “theyfabs”) they r still ostracised by society, sure alot of ppl just view them as quirky women but they r still treated lesser than cis people and infantalised (yes ik some r evil, but there r some horrific “normal” trans people too, generalising a whole group isnt helping anyone) ik yall wont agree bc im a cringe annoying “tenderqueer” that ahould be kicked out of tttt spaces for “gentrifying” it or wtv
yeah thats what i meant withthe 100% dysphoria, like a trans woman can love having a small chest but despises having male genitals and a low voice. or the inverse they can hate having a small chest but love having male genitals. I think hating on ppl 4 not hating every inch of their body is dumbbb. But what would ik i hate everything abt mysrlf
I think that a lot of it comes from jealousy tbhon. Like I wish I could love my rapestick and I can understand why someone would get frustrated when others seem to completely sidestep their own struggles