The “you’re not a tranny if you don’t desire SRS” and “you don’t need to have bottom dysphoria to be trans” stuff.
Personally I want SRS but all the affordable options aren’t good enough for me and it’s not a priority right now for me. I’d do it if the technique was good and I had the money for it tho but I am not going to Brossard to get botched lmfao
I sort of dislike “you need x to be trans” because dysphoria is incredibly difficult to describe accurately, and repression is also incredibly powerful. I believe you need dysphoria to be trans, but a lot of people are dysphoric but assume they’re just depressed or something. so functionally I don’t like to say “you need dysphoria to be trans” and that extends to genital dysphoria. For me, I can tell I’m genital dysphoric but it’s so low on my priority list (face, body matter much more to me) that I barely think about it and as I am right now I don’t care about getting SRS or not. If I were to solve my other problems, I probably would be incredibly much more genital dysphoric
Apparently it’s common for people to get more bottom dysphoric after they solve other points of dysphoria. I’m too early into HRT to say for certain tho