• Allie
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      I mean that you use all of this nonsense to convince yourself it’s over before it began. “Oh no, youngshits exist, that means I can’t have happiness, I can’t be them”. If you were a youngshit would you just be saying this same sort of thing but with cis women instead? “Oh but I’d know different” NO YOU FUCKING WOULDN’T. If that were the case, the knowledge of people worse off than you would be enough to set your mind at ease. But it’s not enough. And so you doom. You don’t try to even exist as a woman in your home life, where you could be supported. You are going to regret this choice.

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        im getting vocal surgery next month, i am transitioning. im just a hon rn so manmoding is my besy choice

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          You are doing things that would allow you to transition but you will not be transitioning until you begin to exist as a woman. Even just doing it in your own head, where you stop thinking of yourself as a man, would be a powerful step.

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              Well I’m glad you can acknowledge that you’re a woman at least, you’re ahead of some around here. But I think the rest of it might be helped if you would encourage your family to recognize that you are a woman.