The divide between AMAB and AFAB nonbinaries is palpable. I hate mentioning it, and I find these terms incomprehensively retarded. But I have to say it. It is a fucking SLOG to talk to theyfabs. I HATE it. And the he/they guys are almost always trans women who hate themselves or alt guys trying to fuck the THEYFABS. I HATE PRIDEEEE. I hate being the mediator for trannies. WHY DO ADULTS ACT LIKE BABIES. GRAH.

  • RabbitHoleGirly
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    8 days ago

    Honestly… this makes me wonder what the neuroscience of non-binariness might be like…

    Idk… I am just unsure how often the dial does actually just land on non-binary given spectrum in terms of dysphoria and all that…

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      7 days ago

      I mean it’s not like there’s an absence of research on the matter, just a lack of it in comparison to binoid stuff.

      If curious about what one experience with nonbinarity is more or less like, I often like using this link (https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S030698771200062X) as a very quick primer on the existence of AGI, given that I am a bigendoid who is a sufferer of it… tho the full article needs organizational access to be read, you can get the basic idea from here just fine. It was weirdly validating learning about this stuff as a mixed-handed person with bipolar 1 who’s bodymap and sense of identity has never been stable, like it’s still kinda crazy to me that these things have been found to be correlated in the research on the matter cuz like they’re literally describing me. I’d actually be really interested in helping out in some studies in the future and getting my brain scanned cuz the subject matter fascinates me quite a lot too.

      I assume the dial lands somewhere in the middle of the sex distribution in a lot of cases of troonism, but actual physical medical transitioners just default to binary terms cuz nonbinary has been so thoroughly cissified while binary trooning has simultaneously been kinda third-gendered in the public conscious, y’know? Consequences of words not meaning things these days and enby becoming a symbolic gesture.

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    7 days ago

    hmm yes so all enbies are women i see…