My mind says : dont do it! you wont have anybody left in your life, you cant trust anyone… they are your family, you grew up with them alonside them… you saw them for everyday in your life…

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    7 days ago

    They would never accept the true you. It’s not your fault that it has to be that way. They could be different, they choose not to.

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      8 days ago

      I have been living with them for 20 years, I have seen them EVERY DAY FOR 20 years. at this point, they are a part of me. and I am a part of them… It will be a pandemonium not only limited to my parents, but my entire extended family probably. my mom will probably get sent to the fucking hospital. since she hyper ventilates when I am gone for 1 hour outside and don’t call her back

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        8 days ago

        It still is not your fault that they refuse to let you live in the only way that is healthy for you. It is not your fault, therefore you should not feel guilty.

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          8 days ago

          Ill just let a note behind if I dissapear at 3 am. (they wont let me go lol). and hope for the best, I cant do more