I’m going to guess “very fucked”, unless you’re more of a passoid than you realize lol. Like idk unless you’re remote-working in some way I feel like it’s best to urbanize your life. Whatever city in Italy has the most trans-accepting reputation, or largest trans community, is probably your best hope. If you can’t be bothered with moving, then like… compsci it is. I’m sorry
Yeah I can’t move rn cause I’m a broke 18 yo. Can’t really finish college cause I’m getting bullied and come summer it will get worse, I won’t be able to hide my boobs behind hoodies. So like, idk what to do right now lol. Been thinking I could find some shitty temporary job while figuring out the situation.
It’s less than ideal as I’m pretty sure they can negatively effect boob growth, but you might wanna get a binder if you literally can’t hide your boobs. Don’t mention you’re trans or even present GNC in front of employers, consider getting a haircut, etc. Getting a job is a good idea, but guaranteeing employment is easiest when presenting cis. I’ve had rural trans friends go on job searches that’d virtually never end because they were open about it… but then yet again I’m no expert of your local political attitudes… so, y’know, use your better judgment. Manmode should be your friend tho
How fucked am I if I’m in a small northern town in Italy? Lol
I’m going to guess “very fucked”, unless you’re more of a passoid than you realize lol. Like idk unless you’re remote-working in some way I feel like it’s best to urbanize your life. Whatever city in Italy has the most trans-accepting reputation, or largest trans community, is probably your best hope. If you can’t be bothered with moving, then like… compsci it is. I’m sorry
Yeah I can’t move rn cause I’m a broke 18 yo. Can’t really finish college cause I’m getting bullied and come summer it will get worse, I won’t be able to hide my boobs behind hoodies. So like, idk what to do right now lol. Been thinking I could find some shitty temporary job while figuring out the situation.
It’s less than ideal as I’m pretty sure they can negatively effect boob growth, but you might wanna get a binder if you literally can’t hide your boobs. Don’t mention you’re trans or even present GNC in front of employers, consider getting a haircut, etc. Getting a job is a good idea, but guaranteeing employment is easiest when presenting cis. I’ve had rural trans friends go on job searches that’d virtually never end because they were open about it… but then yet again I’m no expert of your local political attitudes… so, y’know, use your better judgment. Manmode should be your friend tho
Yeah… Fmstl