How do I even go about not seeing myself as a cis chaser? I hope to God I’m not one. Normally I’m pretty good with introspective stuff and reaching understandings, but this one sticks in the back of my brain. Am I taking advantage of my girlfriend?
How do I even go about not seeing myself as a cis chaser? I hope to God I’m not one. Normally I’m pretty good with introspective stuff and reaching understandings, but this one sticks in the back of my brain. Am I taking advantage of my girlfriend?
With that i don’t necessarily mean to say that I think you are trans, especially if you don’t identify as such. Life is way more nuanced than that if you’re truly open to view yourself through curious and caring eyes. Myabe it’s something else that resonates with you. Maybe it’s the boldness that you relate to, maybe it’s the defiance of building a life one can thrive with even if that life exists at the margins of civilization. Oppressed people find solace in each other, because suffering is meaningless. But suffering brings us closer with other people who are suffering as well, because we understand.
I would consider myself trans, but sometimes I suppose I can get in my own head.
That makes sense then! I don’t really know if i could truly fall in love and feel safe around a person who is not trans so i totally feel you.