How do I even go about not seeing myself as a cis chaser? I hope to God I’m not one. Normally I’m pretty good with introspective stuff and reaching understandings, but this one sticks in the back of my brain. Am I taking advantage of my girlfriend?

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    28 days ago

    do u only fetishize ur girlfriend, or do u love her?

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      28 days ago

      I love her, absolutely. Never would I dream of doing a gross sexual thing to her. But I also feel like a chaser, since I can only imagine myself dating trans people.

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        28 days ago

        do u think u can only imagine urself dating trans people because u can only imagine urself dating ur girlfriend, who is trans? do u feel the same thing about other traits ur girlfriend has?

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          28 days ago

          I didn’t really pick up on what you meant here, But right now I couldn’t imagine myself dating anybody else. That’s kind of like mental cheating and I respect her too much to do that.

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            28 days ago

            I’m pretty sure u aren’t a chaser