Like yea, I thought he was ugly too but how do you like him when you know that wtf.

Do I just have a high standard by only dating people I think are physically attractive or some shit, does being straight actually make you deranged

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    There’s far more to attraction than just looks and some ugliness can be cute

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      I mean sure but outright saying “I do wish he was actually attractive” is pretty harsh right. Like how can you be into someone but not find them physically attractive

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    Bisexual girls will only obsess over attractive men like Geralt of Rivia and Leon Kennedy RE9 it’s true.

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      Tbh, one of the girls I’m thinking of is kinda bi, she seems confused tho. But my bi friends definitely have lower standards for men than for women it’s insane

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        I think my standards for men might be higher tbh.

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          Good!! Men are too comfortable doing fuck all

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    It often seems to me as if straightoid women find most men visually unattractive in general and need to be convinced by their other qualities first to be able to tolerate them physically. It’s really wild.

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      Yet they call us mentally unwell

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    straight women tend to ve forced to lower their standards somehow even mkre than bi ones

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      not as bad as transbians tho sometimes my girks have to settle for the worst ngl

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        Transbians can have awful standards, but sometimes they’re both really shitty so their perfect for each other

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      Every bi girl I know has much lower standards with men, a friend is dating a guy for the first time in years and he’s just so meh, especially compared to the women she used to be with.

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        But yeah bi girls are kinda forced to lower their standsrdd to like, transbian puppies or the most mid cis dick possible

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          Yea and it’s depressing, women deserve more

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            I hate to brag but im glad i found my love and didnt have to find some rapehon locally or something worse

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              Yea me too, when I trying to date and still bothered with t4t it was a nightmare of awful transbians

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                I know like one transbian (personally) who is normal and still she had to be helped to grow because of her insecurities, she still isnt certain if she will find love. Testosterone is tough to cure but she is there already. Im proud kf her and she is like the only transbian i trust with venting and speaking more openly about yk.

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                  Yea I understand, I know a girl like that too.