passing is a multidimensional spectrum instead of a binary.

yes i pass. yes i got ffs. yes i have a passing voice. however my skin is fucked. my fat distribution is male. almost 5 years hrt and no boobs, which wouldn’t be a problem if i was a twinkhon but instead im a former fatrepper. my upper body looks like a male with gyno when unclothed. my waist did narrow my pelvis did wide but i got no fat distribution to back it up. my hips are higher. my legs are shaped weird. my skin is fucked up from several genetic skin conditions plus just stuff like hyperpigmentation and horrible stretch marks.

i also gained 50 pounds after ffs and honestly i’ve stopped putting in any effort on how i look

from the front naked i could maybe pass as a horrible deformed woman but from the back i’d look 100% male.

so yes i do pass in day to day life. that doesn’t mean i have even 1% the body i would have if i was cis. why would a boyfriend want me if i look so fucked up and i’m trans

so like when people tell me that ‘ive made it’, it makes me feel horrible. because i haven’t made it, but if i say that then im the fucking annoying bdd passoid aren’t i?

most passoids actually mog me. maybe i mog them in one aspect like face or voice or height but i rarely ever see bodies that do not mog mine on r/troonselfies and 4tst