i get its natural and not really a gendered thing. but i cant help feeling self conscious about it. even after i spend an hour+ shaving i always A. miss spots which is humiliating, and B. have vellus hair literally everywhere there isnt terminal hair already.

like idk. even if i manage to shave myself smooth im basically a giant peach with the amount of light fuzz i have and while it doesnt bother me personally much, i worry others would find it gross 😞

  • Loose_Sandwich9217
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    I think point b is just normal, thats judy kinda jow that works. Ive also like never took note vellus hair on another person in my life tbh I dont think anyone would care

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      idk. some of it gets quite long so it might just be blonde terminal hair. and by everywhere i mean everywhere. i dont think i have a single area of skin that isnt noticeably fuzzy

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    Form me It’s kinda whatever tbh I’m the same I have hair literally everywhere and it grows back after a week so I just gave up in doing it

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    this but some of my “velus” hairs are literally black under further inspection