i get its natural and not really a gendered thing. but i cant help feeling self conscious about it. even after i spend an hour+ shaving i always A. miss spots which is humiliating, and B. have vellus hair literally everywhere there isnt terminal hair already.

like idk. even if i manage to shave myself smooth im basically a giant peach with the amount of light fuzz i have and while it doesnt bother me personally much, i worry others would find it gross 😞