if you talk loud you’re bothering everyone around you and preventing everyone who doesn’t step down to your level from talking, like, you’re not important, fucking chill
it is only the norm cause only people who talk loud end up being heard, cause as I said, they prevent any attention from being directed to actual civilized people, like we’re some wild animals or smth
(I’m autistic and have hella auditive sensibility and I can’t take living in a space where that seems to be acceptable)
i hate loud noises so much
fucking too, imagine having to endure that every single moment I’m at home
i dont have to imagine 😭 even my work is just filled with the constant sound of things slamming
I feel like constant loud talking is even worse cause your brain keeps trying to get any mean from that
at home i have the constant loud talking but i find that easier to tune out than the slamming because its kinda a consistent noise level while at work its like more inconsistent plus you cant wear headphones at work
headphones with noise canceling + music turned on don’t cease the voices in my case, cause it is really that loud
okay thats kinda insane do you live with a metal band 😭
wooden house so no sound isolation + really loud talking + it’s usually in voicechat in the pc they put right by the wall of my room
Yeau. Literally my whole family is unbelievably loud and I’m the singular exception cause I ended up an autist lol
real and then my mom comes into my room yapping at me specifically to be annoying
I am a loud autist so what now
make an effort idk, I can talk loud when I’m required to
The world favors the loud autist.
it does but that’s not a good thing, you shouldn’t be proud of that
It ain’t a crime to be loud. The world is loud.
lotta things aren’t crimes but they do render you insufferable and a bitch to be around
When I am loud, people are just as happy to be around me. It’s a likeable thing and many don’t find it insufferable at all.
yea because of the exact phenomenon I described in the post, read it again perhaps?
