if you talk loud you’re bothering everyone around you and preventing everyone who doesn’t step down to your level from talking, like, you’re not important, fucking chill
it is only the norm cause only people who talk loud end up being heard, cause as I said, they prevent any attention from being directed to actual civilized people, like we’re some wild animals or smth
(I’m autistic and have hella auditive sensibility and I can’t take living in a space where that seems to be acceptable)


at home i have the constant loud talking but i find that easier to tune out than the slamming because its kinda a consistent noise level while at work its like more inconsistent plus you cant wear headphones at work
headphones with noise canceling + music turned on don’t cease the voices in my case, cause it is really that loud
okay thats kinda insane do you live with a metal band 😭
wooden house so no sound isolation + really loud talking + it’s usually in voicechat in the pc they put right by the wall of my room
sorry that sucks 😭