I’ve had a message that I’ve had ready to send for 3 days now and I just can’t push the button.

  • doombay
    6·
    6 days ago

    bc regardless of how supportive they are, it will change their perception of you

    • dementiatarawayOP
      3·
      6 days ago

      I’ve thought about that but I am 90% sure this person knows I’m a tranny and she certainly does not perceive me as a man. And I still don’t have the courage to tell her. She’s told it to my face “if you ever come out I’ll support you”. She has asked if I’m a closeted tranny time and time again. I don’t think it would change her perception of me in any way but I can’t send the message.

      • doombay
        1·
        6 days ago

        yeah maybe, but I still feel like there’s a difference between suspected tranny and confirmed tranny, you know?

  • Cambi
    2·
    6 days ago

    Also vulnerability. It’s like telling someone a deep secret. You would still hesitate to tell it, even if you fully trust the person.