Mine would be:

  1. I have no issue with cis women, nonbinary people, or supposed non dysphorics getting top sugery. I say supposed because surgery, even relatively safe surgery that might be fully covered by insurance or the government depending on where you live, is still a huge life decision that can’t be easily reversed. It’s not just a quirky spur of the moment styling choice that you could just stop using like binding. Imo if someone is willing to go under the knife and enduring the recovery process of top surgery, they’re either really dysphoric about their chest or hate having tits for some other reason that bothers them enough to the point they’d go through perminate surgery.

  2. I have no issue with nontransitioning (as in not on hormones) nonbinary people because there’s no cis sexless people irl to act as a base to want to become. I think most of neo pronoun stuff is bullshit but if someone wants to be called they/them while still looking like a man or woman I don’t see any issue with abiding by that. As long as they don’t compare their own struggles to or try to speak over binary trans or transitioning nonbinaries they’re harmless and not nearly as big of an optics nuke as a lot of tranners seems to think.

  3. Cis queers aren’t inherently our enemies unless they make themselves hostile to trannies. The moment one says something transphobic, yeah, fuck them, but a lot of them really do care about trans rights. The smart ones know that if trans rights get revoked, gay rights are next. Obviously don’t trust anyone solely because they’re queer and trust your gut if they give you any reason to be suspicious. All I’m saying is that they’re going through a shit time too right now (not as bad as ours, but they aren’t completely safe yet either).

  • Semoyon
    3·
    10 days ago

    if im being serious. theres nothing actually truly wrong with being sneedy/clocky/poony/theyfab/theymab/nonpassing/genderfucked/genderqueer/doing drag visibly*. its actually incredibly brave that other queer people challenge gender norms. theres nothing wrong with Pride. i think these people are happier than any 4tranner even on a bad day. id rather be around genderfucked tenderqueers than 4tranners in real life, even though i intend to be stealth myself.

    they only clash with reppers and stealth trannies when they out them or think we approach transitioning the same way. thats when theyre wrong. but my point is optics arent real, we arent being targeted because of other loud proud trannies, we are targeted because cissoids hate us and are trying harder to learn how to clock us because they want us gone. turning on your own community and dividing us only helps cissoids push us out and kill us faster.

    *does not apply to sissies and femboys and whoever else wants to turn trans people into a fucking porn category.

    • DeadgiveawayOP
      2·
      10 days ago

      Agreed. Transphobic cissoids are going to hate us anyway and a lot of people deemed theyfabs or theymabs or whatever are usually either really young, not used to being open about who they are, or autistic as fuck (like me) so they come off as annoying or socially clueless. They’re still trying to figure out who they are and being assholes to them just because they’re cringe helps no one.

  • Cambi
    3·
    10 days ago

    Non-transitioning enbies are just GNC cis people, not trans people.

    • DeadgiveawayOP
      2·
      10 days ago

      I don’t know enough about being nonbinary to debate that but I’ve got Canadian politeness embedded in my dna so I’ll just call them what they want. Worst case scenario, they are cis but just want to go by they/them, who gives a fuck.

      • Cambi
        1·
        10 days ago

        I use pronouns, but I would never call them trans, even if it was a polite thing to do.

    • DeadgiveawayOP
      1·
      10 days ago

      The fuck is going on with the delivery driver shit here. Was their some irl incident or this it just an inside joke?

  • ...
    2·
    10 days ago

    Wokeism is a retarded ideology and is the antithesis to any reasonable society, it is an ideology built on pure hate and wrath, it is like Nazism but if the Nazis did not have a sense of nationalism or racial superiority and believed their actions were correct and they are superior due to their wrath

  • friday
    2·
    10 days ago

    i agree, with the caveat to 2 that nondysphoric nontransitioning nonbinaries arent trans

    • DeadgiveawayOP
      1·
      10 days ago

      Idk enough about psychology to debate that. My only very uneducated opinion is that I don’t even know what they’d be transitioning to become it’s not likr there’s something in between estrogen and testorone. Either way, even if they aren’t trans, I’m tenderqueer enough that I’ll still use they/them if they ask.