Mine would be:
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I have no issue with cis women, nonbinary people, or supposed non dysphorics getting top sugery. I say supposed because surgery, even relatively safe surgery that might be fully covered by insurance or the government depending on where you live, is still a huge life decision that can’t be easily reversed. It’s not just a quirky spur of the moment styling choice that you could just stop using like binding. Imo if someone is willing to go under the knife and enduring the recovery process of top surgery, they’re either really dysphoric about their chest or hate having tits for some other reason that bothers them enough to the point they’d go through perminate surgery.
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I have no issue with nontransitioning (as in not on hormones) nonbinary people because there’s no cis sexless people irl to act as a base to want to become. I think most of neo pronoun stuff is bullshit but if someone wants to be called they/them while still looking like a man or woman I don’t see any issue with abiding by that. As long as they don’t compare their own struggles to or try to speak over binary trans or transitioning nonbinaries they’re harmless and not nearly as big of an optics nuke as a lot of tranners seems to think.
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Cis queers aren’t inherently our enemies unless they make themselves hostile to trannies. The moment one says something transphobic, yeah, fuck them, but a lot of them really do care about trans rights. The smart ones know that if trans rights get revoked, gay rights are next. Obviously don’t trust anyone solely because they’re queer and trust your gut if they give you any reason to be suspicious. All I’m saying is that they’re going through a shit time too right now (not as bad as ours, but they aren’t completely safe yet either).
if im being serious. theres nothing actually truly wrong with being sneedy/clocky/poony/theyfab/theymab/nonpassing/genderfucked/genderqueer/doing drag visibly*. its actually incredibly brave that other queer people challenge gender norms. theres nothing wrong with Pride. i think these people are happier than any 4tranner even on a bad day. id rather be around genderfucked tenderqueers than 4tranners in real life, even though i intend to be stealth myself.
they only clash with reppers and stealth trannies when they out them or think we approach transitioning the same way. thats when theyre wrong. but my point is optics arent real, we arent being targeted because of other loud proud trannies, we are targeted because cissoids hate us and are trying harder to learn how to clock us because they want us gone. turning on your own community and dividing us only helps cissoids push us out and kill us faster.
*does not apply to sissies and femboys and whoever else wants to turn trans people into a fucking porn category.
Agreed. Transphobic cissoids are going to hate us anyway and a lot of people deemed theyfabs or theymabs or whatever are usually either really young, not used to being open about who they are, or autistic as fuck (like me) so they come off as annoying or socially clueless. They’re still trying to figure out who they are and being assholes to them just because they’re cringe helps no one.