If I shut the fuck up I come across as a woman because of my thick hips and figure and fashion sense. But then I speak, and among the youth and certain genres of annoying male, I immediately become their ideal version of a “femboy” which is when someone looks pretty much exactly like a woman besides like one thing, like voice or mannerisms or something. Not like an actual femboy where they look like a young man that got lucky with a later puberty or something. But like the cartoonish ones from awful pornography. Some men too autistic to control themselves but too chaser to stay quiet will say I am like a femboy. This would be a lot easier if I was a woman and I could just commit to being femme and there was an androgynous voice that all cultures were accustomed to so I could work towards that instead of kind of getting shafted.