I may be too woke but I think being a trans man who owns a stuffed animal or has a fashion sense outside of t-shirts, hoodies and jeans doesn’t make you a hefab. Also, I think it’s possible for a trans man to date a bishit cismoid who geniuely does see him as a man. In fairness I’m close friends with a bi cis man who is genuinely very trans positive (how the fuck do you say not weird about trannies in a way that sounds normal?) so I’m probably biased.
I also saw one post that got mad at pooners calling themselves guys instead of men. Not like, only calling themselves guy and never men, but just referring to themselves in posts as " a trans guy". I get disliking when we call ourselves boys, but guys is too feminine now? Fuck off.
I didn’t mean the grooming thing when I said that, I meant the “I like women and femboy ls” thing is mostly an online phenomena. But yeah I worded that poorly.
Also yeah, be wary of men totally. My point was that being bi shouldn’t be seen as a red flag by itself but I’m a dumbass so also ignore me and just go by your gut.
no, i understood what you meant. what im saying is that just because the guys who say “i like women and femboys” only say that online, it doesnt mean they dont exist and dont hurt people
Oh yeah they totally do, I completely agree there. They’re a loud, annoying minority but they are out there
I’m sorry for being so sneedy, I’m likely too optimistic about others for my own good. Again, use your own discretion when judging someone, you almost definitely know better than I do.