I’m going to try and make a case for being honfident (if you’re in a safe area). My issue with bdd is that it encourages the victim to stay inside and avoid people, and if you do that you are guaranteed to have little female socialization. Even if you look fine, the maleness of the soul will remain. I joke a lot about how you can get away with anything if you’re conventionally attractive which is true to some extent but not socializing with women at all will make your personality and priorities stay male. You will never soulpass. And I think the older you are, the more difficult it is to change your personality. I think I can see the appeal of being honfident and having friends versus attractive and alone.